Friday, July 27, 2007

He just goes on and on....

You know there are times when I wish I had not gotten married. These times are few and far between but here lately more frequent. I am of course talking about my husband. He just goes on and on and on and will not shut up!! Right now he is talking about T.O, and I could care less about T.O! And what makes me mad is that when I am talking about something, he cuts me off and starts talking like I never said anything.
this blog is for women who have men like my husband. Try this method ok: I call this selective listening. You are ignoring him, but you are listening you just don't ACTIVELY listen to him. Answer yes to a question or if you can discern enough of the jibber jabber, answer no. for the rest just let it go lmao. This is what I do to my husband. what you really want to do is seem like you are interested. For the record, he is currently talking about the Cowboy's. I hate them!! And don't give a crap about them, yet he thinks that I am interested in them. I'm an Eagle's fan for goodness sake!! ok I have vented for now. Ladies Igg out your man when he starts the random talking. Your brain will thank you later.

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Opening statements....

Ok, I have not done this before but here goes nothing...

I am 32 and I love to do hair. I have been semi natural off and on for about 2 years until I came to the realization that I hated me. I hated everything about me. From my glasses to my hair to my weight. March 2005 I got mad at myself and shaved my hair off in the middle of the night while all in the house slept. I even went so far as to use my husband's shaving cream and razor to make my head squeaky clean bald. Needless to say he was shocked to hell! lol I grew a magnificent head of hair with patience and lots and lots of water. Then I got dumb and relaxed it (Yes sistas I know , I know). Later I got stressed about me and life and it all broke off. March 2006 I B/C'd again and this time left it alone but I had no clue at the time how to take care of natural hair so I ran a 5 minute texturizer through my hair. Bought maintenance products and kept on going. By October I had a HUGE fro'. Was happy as hell! Then I got sick and depressed in January and all of my hair started to split and fall out. So on the 16th of that month, my husband cut off all of my hair. I know now that my hair products and some other factors contributed to my illness, and will NEVER EVER go back to relaxers, or texturizers, not even hair color. My daughter is natural, and blessed to be beautiful and crazy funny! My son is...well he is who he is lmao. But I love him and he is a walking living miracle people. My husband, I love him and but then I wish he would grow up a little bit. Everday is a house full of children and I am the ONLY adult in it!. Don't get me wrong I love him I truly do, but he has no sense of the word GROWN. Ok I'm done.